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In my life I have had several mentor's. Some have been face
to face meetings. But most have been through their books
or audio courses.

It makes no difference how you are being mentored, as long
as you are recieving the message.

Most online mentoring course's will charge you alot of money.
And most will leave you wondering what you paid for.

If your looking for direction in your personal life, and your
home business. The group I use is Mentoring for Free.

And the price is great, I mean it's right in the title of the
program Mentoring for Free. The training is live and
interactive with 10 training call's a week. Covering a wide
variety of personal and business coaching.

Mentoring for Free is open to anyone who is looking for a
place to belong. It's a world wide community, of like minded
people. Who are willing to assist you in all life's matters.

Your introduction is as easy as downloading this free ebook
Success in 10 Steps. Get your copy by clicking here.

Your Friend in Success

Gary McElwain


Being a mentor with a servans heart

The Power of Leadership Using Colors to Achieve Success

Developing your leadership success by using the personality
colors is powerful. When you learn the personality colors, you
can activate the universal laws of attraction.

And attract what seems like an endless amount of people directly
to you...because you're adding value to your relationship with them.

It's such a simple principle that is so often overlooked.

The vast majority of marketers and home business owners are
out there trying to sell people on everything. They're trying to
pitch anyone they can on their business opportunity... and they're
missing the target that's right in front of them.

When you take the time to develop an understanding of the
personality colors..and then share this value with other people...
you're capable of building a relationship that puts you miles
ahead of the pack.

You see, when you craft your leadership style based on the
personality colors. You are better able to relate to each individual
on your team in a more direct and personal level.

Creating a bigger impact in the life of every person.

Think how many people you make contact with on a daily basis,
and how your understanding of their personality color, will allow
you to be an inspiration to them, and their desire to be successful
in your business.

Are you getting a sense of these leadership strategies

When you create your leadership profile in such a way that it hits
your team builders directly at the heart of their core beliefs. You
create a bond with them on a deeper level...

You have no idea how many people are going to be very interested
in learning a lot more about your leadership style of business.

Mentoring for Free teaches people how to be themselves and
how to create relationships. That will in the long term help you
make more money in your network marketing business
then you ever thought possible.

Developing leadership abilities, so you can teach other
people how to 'Attract' people to them...by sharing the personality
color of who you are. So people with similar values, goals, dreams,
and philosophies will hear you...and say to themselves

"Wow, I'm a lot like this person. They are really cool!"

Mentoring for Free will teach you how to relate to other people
so they like you, trust you, respect you, and want to join you in
whatever business you're working with. That's the power of
learning the personality colors.

So you can understand how to tap into the driving force that
exists in your prospects mind. And use it to create a never ending
supply of interested prospects, who will be the backbone to your
leadership style of success.

You can learn more about the personality colors in the free
ebook Success in 10 Steps. And by attending the free teleseminar
on Saturday night, for more details.

Get your free copy by clicking on this link "Success in 10 Steps"

Your Friend in Success

Gary McElwain

Leadership by Determination, Being All In

The world is full of all kinds of
leaders. We have mothers and
fathers who raise us from infants
and instill their beliefs in us, be
they good or bad.

We have teachers who educate us
on the fundamentals of learning.
We have political leaders, who would
like to lead us in the way's they think we should live our lives.

We have militay leaders who mold
boy's and girls into disciplined
adults. Creating more men and
women of leadership caliber.
to mentor, coach, and train the
new recruits. In the determination
and ability of leadership


And we have sports leaders who inspire us to be great athlete's.

But the determination it takes to be a leader requires being able
to take the pounding you recieve from others who are not willing
to "Be All In" for the game.

Real leaders, the ones who stand head and shoulders above the
others. Are the ones willing to leave their comfort zone, and have
the determination to get back up after they've been knocked down.

(Photo by Ronald Martinez/Getty Images North America)

Brett Favre will be remembered as one of
the greatest quaterbacks of all time. With
all the records and milestones he has
achieved. His determination to be a
leader, stands out the most to me. In what
may be his last ever professional football
game, he was knocked down and beat up
more than ever before.

But his determination to lead his team, kept
him getting back up, time after time. That
determination to win at all cost, makes him
"Be All In" for the game.

Being a leader who is all in, can inspire those afraid to leave their
comfort zone to be led to heights of success they never dreamed.

My good friend and personal mentor Michael Dlouhy, is "All In"
for the game. And he is willing to mentor, coach,and train you,
to new heights of success.

The Mentoring For Free game plan will help you break out of
your comfort zone.

The Success in 10 Steps ebook will be your leadership play book.

So if Network Marketing is your game, and you desire to be
the leader of your team. Why not use a proven, duplicatable
game plan. One that will move you easily out of your comfort
zone. And put you "All In for the Game".

Click Here for Success in 10 Steps

Your Friend in Success

Gary McElwain

John Reese Opportunity .com is Live

John Reese opened his new business today Opportunity.com
It's a monthly membership site to help people with affiliate
marketing online for $39.95 a month.

I think he's offering a great service to a lot of struggling people.
But will it mean we receive another million emails with the
same offer.

Now don't get me wrong, I belong to several marketer's list.
I follow them to see what strategies they use, and the various
techniques they share. Plus they give away a lot of helpful
information.

But unfortunately, I also receive a lot of spam from people
that don't seem to have a clue as to what they are doing.
I'm not their target market, and have no interest in their
product.

That's got to be the most important strategy in any of your
marketing efforts. Find your target market, then give them
what they are looking for.

In Mentoring for Free our target market is people who are
struggling in their network marketing business. Then we
give them what they are looking for. Starting with the free ebook
"Success in 10 Steps".

Then we teach them why their struggles are not their fault.
Next come's the free training, to help them become successful
in their business. And we do this by offering them a proven
duplicatable system to use.

Then we teach them how to use this system, to train their
own team on how to be successful. And it all starts by
downloading the free ebook "Success in 10 Steps".

But if you would like to check out what John Reese has
to offer, you can click here Opportunity.com

Your Friend in Success

Gary McElwain
216-539-3553 Anytime
My Success Manual

Being a Mentor with a servants heart

Building Confidence for MLM Team Building

In network marketing, personal development is an important
part of the success quotient. So you cannot allow your thoughts
to be controlled by others, positive personal self talk is a
necessary tool to keep you in control of your own thoughts and
actions.

This is a great lesson for every network marketer.

The day's of you stumbling into success in network marketing
are gone. As prospects whose dominant emotion is fear - aren't
letting go of their wallets and purses so easily anymore. People
are so afraid, they don't want to spend their hard earned money
on anything that looks like a risky opportunity.

But sharper people who are re-inventing themselves and their
businesses with a disciplined action plan of personal development
are actually thriving. By being able to get control of your
thoughts and actions , you'll create success in network marketing
- in a good or a bad economy.

If you don't control your own thoughts, how can you ever expect
to talk confidently to a prospect about your opportunity? You
must believe in what you're saying about, your industry, your
company and your ability to help this individual build their own
downline...especially in these scary economic times. This creates
confidence in your team building strategy's

Luckily for us in network marketing, confidence is actually easy
to develop. In fact, if you stay on the personal development plan,
you'll eventually end up in a leadership role. So developing the
habits of highly effective people will pay off "big time"... so it's
worth it to stay the course of personal development mastery.

What you use to communicate with your prospects will have a
major effect on your ability to gain trust with them.Using
completely automated systems, where your prospect never
gets to question you, hear from you and "feel" your spirit, will
surely ruin your business. Even beforeyou can get it off the
ground.

Right now, you can get the tools and training you need to ensure
your success no matter what condition the economy is in. The
tools and training I use and suggest are available to you in
Mentoring for Free

Your Friend in Success

Gary McElwain
216-539-3553 Anytime
My Success Manual

Being a Mentor with a Servants Heart

Creating a Successful Team Building Formula

If you are currently struggling in
network marketing, or have
failed in the past, it may surprise
you to learn that it wasn't
necessarily your fault. The
program you work with and when
you join it, have a significant
effect on both your earnings
potential, and how successful you
can become.

Even people who have been in the business for years often don't
understand how important these factors are to their success.
They may join initially after a good online presentation, but
they soon are out of their comfort zone and usually drop out,
or remain customers but do not actively build their home
based business.

Naturally you want to follow a successful formula. And the
best explanation for creating success in the network marketing
industry is, "get a large group of people to consistently
do a few simple activities, over a long period of time".
So it makes sense that we tailor our approach to prospects, with
that belief in mind.

So if you are looking to build a strong, solid, and ongoing business
in MLM. Then the most important activity you can engage in is
training, coaching, and mentoring the people you sponsor into
your business. And the best way to accomplish this is by
providing a detailed, step by step, duplicatable system.

This has to be created by the leadership, because the people
who are actually in the trenches promoting and prospecting.
They are the one's building the support structure that can help
you build your dreams. So give your team the passion they
require to carry the message to the masses.

You want to give them training, with targeted team building
tools. And a proven duplicatable system to use, and share with
their prospects. Provide mastermind workshops, where they
can grow into successful network marketers. If this seems like
a lot to create. There is a step-by-step system for you to follow,
and share. It's called Mentoring for Free

Your Friend in Success

Gary McElwain
216-539-3553 Anytime
My Success Manual

Being a Mentor with a Servants Heart

Team Building Requires a Great Tool

Network marketing success requires the building of an action
oriented team. This is essential to the success of your network
marketing business. Let the major league coaches at
Mentoring for Free assist you in these efforts.

Developing a productive team highlights a sense of group
awareness and belief in the cause of being a success minded
individual. This is what makes a team effective and provides
the building blocks for a solid foundation to build on.

Team building requires action and motivation

Which is what inspires effective leaders to coach this attitude
into their downline everyday. The focus and determination
displayed by the team leader is what duplicates into the overall
teams success.

Activities that are designed to improve your team's intense desire
to succeed might include a challenge. Leaders seem to come to
the forefront when a challenge is issued. Exercises in building
up their distributer base for a corporate event, would be a good
example.

Develop some team building objectives

This can help measure the effectiveness of your team.Team
building and training are critical to any successful network
marketing project. Learn how to unleash your team's power
and potential by introducing them to the duplicatable system
created in Mentoring for Free.

Help your team create their own achievements by accomplishing
realistic goals. By learning and integrating the informative team
building strategies taught in the friendly and relaxed atmosphere
of Mentoring for Free. It's training and coaching of practical
knowledge for any teams success in the internet world.

What we need to get communication started is an icebreaker. I
propose an easy to read free ebook. This will start the bonding
process, and show you how duplication can be achieved by
everyone. Get the book at this link "My Success Manual"

Your Friend in Success

Gary McElwain
216-539-3553 Anytime
My Success Manual

Being a Mentor with a Servants Heart

How The Mass Media Masters Distorting Your Mind

At first glance, it would seem that positive thinking and Attention
Deficit Disorder (ADD) have nothing to do with one another.
But many of those with ADD develop negative thinking patterns
because they become frustrated by challenges and frequent
feelings of being overwhelmed.

Having a negative outlook then makes it even harder for all of
us to manage our daily challenges and motivate ourselves to
move forward.

Practicing positive thinking allows us to focus on our strengths
and accomplishments, which increases our happiness and
motivation. This, in turn, allows us to spend more time making
progress, and less time feeling down and stuck.

The following tips provide practical suggestions that you can
use to help you shift into more positive thinking patterns:

For help use the "30 Day Mental Cleanse"

1. Take Good Care of Yourself
It's much easier to be positive when you are eating well,
exercising, and getting enough rest.

2. Remind Yourself of the Things You Are Grateful For
Stresses and challenges don't seem quite as bad when you are
constantly reminding yourself of the things that are right in life.
Start every day taking just 60 seconds to stop and appreciate
the good things. This will make a huge difference in your outlook
.
3. Look for the Proof Instead of Making Assumptions
A fear of not being liked or accepted sometimes leads us to
assume that we know what others are thinking, but our fears
are usually not reality. Don't waste time worrying that you did
something wrong, unless you have proof that there is something
to worry about.

4. Refrain from Using Absolutes
Thinking and speaking in absolutes like 'always' and 'never'
makes the situation seem worse than it is, and programs your
brain into believing that certain people are incapable of delivering.

5. Detach From Negative Thoughts
Your thoughts can't hold any power over you if you don't indulge
them. If you notice yourself having a negative thought, detach
from it, release it, and don't follow it.

6. Squash the "ANTs"
In his book "Change Your Brain, Change Your Life,"
Dr. Daniel Amen talks about "ANTs" - Automatic Negative
Thoughts. These are the bad thoughts that are usually
reactionary, like "Those people are laughing, they must be
talking about me," or "The boss wants to see me? It must be bad!"
When you notice these thoughts, realize that they are nothing
more than ANTs and squash them!

7. Practice Lovin', Touchin' & Squeezin'
You don't have to be an expert to know the benefits of a good
hug. Positive physical contact with friends, loved ones, and even
pets, is an instant pick-me-up.

8. Increase Your Social Activity
By increasing social activity, you decrease loneliness. Surround
yourself with healthy, happy people, and their positive energy
will affect you in a positive way!

9. Volunteer for an Organization, Help another Person
The more positive energy you put out into the world, the more
you will receive in return. Everyone feels good after helping.
You can volunteer your time, your money, or your resources.

10. Use Pattern Interrupts to Combat Rumination
Rumination is like hyper-focus on something negative If you
find yourself ruminating, a great way to stop it is to interrupt the
pattern and force yourself to do something completely different.
Try changing your physical environment - go for a walk or
sit outside. You could also call a friend, pick up a book, or
turn on some music.

Mentoring for Free offers a great mastermind group that
specializes in creating pattern interrupts for negative thinking.
It's a weekly mastermind meeting of positve like minded people
in a teleconference setting.

The program is "The 30 Day Mental Cleanse". You can learn
more about Mentoring for Free, and the "30 Day Mental Cleanse"
by clicking on this link and downloading the free ebook
"Success in 10 Steps".

Your Friend in Success
Gary McElwain
216-539-3553 Anytime
My Success Manual

Being a Mentor with a Servants Heart

5 Scandalous Misconceptions That People Make About Network Marketing And How To Avoid Them

It seems network marketing has taken the world by storm.
This inventive manner of direct selling allows the customer to
become a representative of the network marketing program.
As a result, the customer turned sponsor would be given the
opportunity to earn from his efforts.

Network marketing has been misrepresented to the online
audience in recent years, further elevating its popularity to new
heights. Enticing a lot of people to join so called network marketing
programs in this day and age.

But only a few are succeeding.

The reason? It’s because countless network marketers are
committing the same mistakes over and over again. Instead of
learning from the errors of their predecessors, they fall victim
to the very same faults, thus jeopardizing their chances of
attaining success in the business of network marketing

What are these mistakes? And how can you avoid them?

1.Believing that MLM is a “get rich quick” scheme.
The fact is, you will have to work – and you will have to work
hard – to be able to achieve success with network marketing,
whether it is conducted online or offline. Though eventually,
you’d be able to receive recurring income from the sales that
would be generated by your down line.

You will have to extend a lot of effort to establish a solid team
of committed individuals who will share your devotion to the
program. Though all of this may seem like hard work, network
marketing remains a very rewarding opportunity for anyone who
would be wise enough to invest their time and energy to building
their network marketing homebased business

2.Believing your own hype.
And this haughty disposition could very well be your number
one obstacle to attaining success with your network marketing
business Don’t get me wrong. A certain level of confidence will
serve you well. After all, and you have to believe in your network
marketing business to be able to convince others to join the cause.
And this requires confidence – the right kind of confidence, that is.

3.Leads are useless.
This kind of attitude is doomed from the very beginning. Leads
are the lifeblood of any network marketing campaign.
Leads represent your prospects, your future recruits. Without
leads, your network marketing campaign is sure to be a failure.

4.Generating a certain volume of leads is enough.
Again, this is an attitude that would spell doom for your success.
Lead generation is, as it should be, a continuous commitment.
It should never cease. Even if you feel that you have generated
enough leads from which you could convert some into new team
members.

There will come a time when all those leads would be exhausted.
What then? Where will you gather your earning potentials if you
have stopped looking for leads? A network marketer’s task is
to continuously – and unceasingly – discover and educate new
prospects everyday.

5.Lack of focus.
Many network marketers are being led to believe that they
should join as many MLM programs as allowable to provide
for themselves multiple streams of income from which they
could diversify their earnings.


This could prove dangerous.
Spreading yourself too thin by engaging in multiple programs at
the same time would make you lose your focus. Instead of
concentrating all your efforts to achieve success with one
program, you’d be dividing your limited time among several
platforms.

The best way to deal with things is to firmly establish yourself a
solid down line from which you could earn some reccuring
income in a sustainable system at a substantial level. This way,
you’d be ensuring that you’ll receive some income from your
business even while you’re vacationing on the beach.

Knowledge, they say, is half the battle won.

Knowing the common mistakes that uneducated network
marketers make is the first step towards success, as it will
guarantee that you won’t fall prey to what has caused their
failure. Learn from them, and succeed where they have fallen.

To get the knowledge necessary to be successful in your
network marketing business. You need to be learning from
a team of people who are using and teaching a proven duplicatable
system. The system that I recommend is Mentoring for Free.

Learn how from this free ebook "Success in 10 Steps"

Your Friend in Success

Gary McElwain
216-539-3553 Anytime
My Success Manual

Being a Mentor with a Servants Heart

How The New Year Brings Your Home Based Business a New List of Resolutions

Are you gonna stay ON track or get off track?

Every week or every several weeks it seems like there is a
new product launch promoted by all the usual suspects.

Nothing wrong with that.

A lot of these products bring fine value to the table. They all
show screen caps of huge amounts of dough brought in during
relatively short time spans.

The implication being that if they can do THAT, the smaller
amount of money you need must be a piece of cake.

That's all well and good.

But before you spend your $1,000 or $2,000, there are a few
things you need to consider:

1. What will happen to the validity of the method once everyone
jumps on the bandwagon? This is a valid concern. Products
that contain seo or ppc tricks are likely to NOT work after
Google hammers down on 'em, as Google seems to love to do.

Anytime anyone figures out how to beat others in getting an
advantage with Google, and widely promotes it, it seems to
break down.

The BEST approach with Google is to seek out Evergreen
strategies and things that aren't widely promoted. I see quite
a few methods promoted where the promoter knows darned
well that after the product launch, it'll fall apart. PPC and
SEO software programs or strategies are particularly vulnerable.

2. Is this method really valid for your normal marketer?
So let's say John Doe made 1 million dollars in a second. All well
and good. But how valid is the method for YOU?

For example, let's say the money was made in a huge product
launch in a niche. That's fine. But do YOU possess the credibility
to go into a niche and do the same thing?

The argument can be made you don't need similar credibility.
But is it true? Or let's say the person is killing it on Google PPC.
But then you later find out they're a super duper whiz with
spreadsheets and have better attention to detail than an
accountant.

Is THIS really gonna be your cup of tea?

If you're good with numbers, go for it. But if you aren't, you
might think twice. There's more than one way to skin a cat as
the old saying goes.

3. Is the product ALL strategy or are the actual technical details
covered? If you can handle the technical details on your own,
then this isn't a big ordeal. But what I see a lot is people buy
products that are all strategy and they aren't given the tools to
actually implement them.

So for example, they may be told to create PDF's, audio and
video and distribute them to affiliates for promotions. But
there are no instructions on how to set up the affiliate program,
create the pdf's, audio and video.

So at the end of the day, you're all EXCITED but NOT
empowered to DO anything. To actually implement it. Sure,
it sounded good. But where are the step-by-step instructions?

4. Does this method REALLY fit with your overall model or
plan? One of the things beginners and even intermediate
marketers seem to have a problem with is choosing and
sticking with ONE game plan.

You can sell affiliate products. Or you can promote CPA offers.
Or you can create and sell your OWN products. But you gotta
pick one model and stick with it.

Some would question that.

But I just don't think a person, especially someone relatively
new to the business can do more than one of these effectively.
You use different methods to promote affiliate programs than
you do CPA lead offers. And it's a different learning curve for
creating and selling your own products.

What often happens is you're on one game plan. But then
everybody and their dog promotes a new, more exciting
method that sounds like a lot EASIER dough.

So then you jump ship.

Until the NEXT easier method comes along. Understand that
the NUMBER of people promoting an offer has nothing to do
with its actual value. It has to do with how skilled a networker
the person is and what their relationships are.

That is, which cliche are they in? Are they in the Cali cliche?
The UK cliche? You know, there are different groups of
marketers who all stick together and promote each others
offers, even if they don't feel it's the best match to their
philosophy or for their list.

Nothing wrong with this. But you as an astute consumer
should know what you're looking at.

5. Can you sort out the different models? There are a few basic
approaches to the online Game:

a. Creating and selling your own info products
b. Selling on ebay
c. Promoting dropship products through seo
d. Promoting Clickbank products through ppc
e. Promoting CPA offers via ppc or paid advertising
f. Pure seo plays
g. Selling plr or reprint rights products
h. Joint venture marketing
i. Product launch plays (part of a)

When offers come out, you need to figure out FIRST which
bucket it belongs in. And ask yourself if that's the bucket
you're working on or specializing in.

Just because a chorus of angels (Internet marketers?) all
swear a product they've never even seen yet is great doesn't
make it the cat's meow. It might be. Could be.

But your own examination and scrutiny is warranted.

If you're doing PPC marketing and it's an seo play, then pass.
If it's a joint venture method that requires you to have your
own products and you're doing affiliate marketing stuff, then
pass.

See, you gotta know what PLAY you're running. You can't run
one play and in the middle of it go, "Oh, wait. This sounds better.

No wait! This grass is greener."

One week marketers are all screaming... PPC to Clickbank!
It rocks. Buy this. So that is one model. The next week it's,
"No wait. My bad. Product launches rock. Do that instead!"
Next week it's, "Affiliate marketing rules! Forget what I said
the last two weeks! Affiliate marketing is what it's ALL about."

This week it's CPA marketing, "OMG -- CPA marketing. It's
the greatest. Go over to my friends site because in 6 weeks
when I do MY launch, I want him to reciprocate a mailing."

The Game and the Dance of product launches, reciprocal emails
and back scratching goes on and on. Not that it's wrong or bad.
Hey, it's business. And there's nothing wrong with it. I
promote on occasion for a few of my friends.

Let's be honest here.

But here's the PROBLEM I got with it. A big problem. You,
as the consumer, are often left scratching your head which
way to go. Now, in my business I teach people how to create
and sell their own info products.

That's dominantly what I do.

And the reasons for that are many. I believe it's the best long
term, evergreen strategy, although it certainly isn't the only
one. But I think of a massive product launch that was made
based on getting top seo positioning and drop shipping
products. Next thing you know Google had changed the rules!

And all of a sudden the chorus was pay-per-click marketing!
So part or all of that learning curve you went through on the
seo was WASTED and now it's a NEW learning curve of PPC!
Which is good for the marketer because it keeps you buying
info products and attending seminars and buying coaching
programs.

But is it good for YOU the consumer?

Product launches are ALL based on something new and
exciting. Because people easily get disenchanted with the
work it takes to create and sell their own products. Or the
work it takes to really do ANY method, frankly.

There is no way to make a lot of dough that doesn't require a
brain or effort. ANY method you use has some sort of Achilles
heel. Something you won't like about it. And you can do well
with about ANY method.

I just like things where you go through the learning curve once,
or as few learning curves as possible and they last. Not that
you'll ever completely avoid learning curves.

What is your MODEL?

That's the question here. And are you going to STICK to
your model when the going gets a little tough? Or are you
going to jump ship to the greener grass on the other side of
the road? Think twice before you do. That's all I'm saying.

Because realize that marketers have a vested interest in selling
you the greener grass on the other side of the road that spawns
new learning curves, seminars and coaching programs.
Nothing wrong with that at all.

But you, as an educated consumer, should know what the
Game is and how to play it for YOUR advantage, not the
marketers.

Marlon Sanders ----------------------------------------

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full and overflowing, check it out NOW!
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I hope Marlon's article helps you in determining the game plan
for your home business. Because strategies and tactics are
constantly changing when it comes to marketing on the internet.

You need FOCUS.

You need an evergreen system to survive

Mentoring For Free has just celebrated it's fourth birthday.
And it still works today, as it did four years ago. With it's FREE
mentoring,coaching, and training evolving into an even better
and more reliable system.

So before you buy into the next big promotional wizbangathing
Get the e-book that started the evolution "Success in 10 Steps".

Your Friend in Success

Gary McElwain
216-539-3553 Anytime
My Success Manual

Being a Mentor with a Servants Heart

Successful Social Networking, Even Hanibal Lecter Had a Plan

It's not fava beans and a fine Chianti, but it will bring you
satisfaction. It's the 30 Day Mental Cleanse hosted by
Mentoring for Free.

With all the chatter going on in our minds, that lead to
distractions constantly creating detours in our daily plans. This
will definitely ruin the Slight Edge process required to create
success in any venture you are involved in.

If your social networking strategies are constantly being
disrupted. Then a 30 Day Mental Cleanse is exactly what
you need. The blueprint used is "Think and Grow Rich".

Is your life worth 30 Days?

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My thoughts from Chapter 15

Fears are nothing more than a state of mind!

Before we can master an enemy, we must know its name, it's
habits, and it's place of abode. It begins with study, analysis,
and understanding. Because they can grow without thier presence
being observed.

I must recognize that I am susceptible to all the basic fears. And
must continuosly develop habits for the purpose of defeating
them. Before they can develop a foothold.

To protect myself against negative influences. I will use my will-
power, and put it to constant use. Until it builds a wall of Immunity,
against negative influences in my own mind.

And I will continuosly keep my mind closed against all who want
to depress and discourage me in any way.

No alibi will save me from accepting the responsibilities if I now
fail. Or refuse to demand Riches of Life. Because the acceptance
of such Riches call for one thing.

A State of Mind.

And a state of mind is something that one assumes. It cannot be
purchased. It must be Created.

Man can create nothing which he does not first concieve in the
form of an Impulse of thought. And mans thought impulses
begin immediately to translate themselves into thier physical
equivalents. Whether the thoughts are voluntary or involuntary.

The obvious truth is that we live in a world of overabundance.
Of everything The heart could desire. With nothing standing
between me and my Desires. Except the lack of a definite purpose.

I do demand riches, and choose to determine what forms and
how much will be required to satisfy me. I know the road that
leads to riches. I have been given the road map.

Which when I follow it, will keep me on that road. If I neglect to
make the start, or stop before I arrive. No one, will be to blame,
except me!

This responsibility is all Mine!

I look forward to hearing you on the calls for the
30 Day Mental Cleanse Mastermind.

Your Friend in Success

Gary McElwain
216-539-3553 Anytime
My Success Manual

Being a Mentor with a Servants Heart

Obamma and McCain Debate, Who Prospers in the Economic Meltdown

In light of the news media's portrail of the current economic
conditions around us. If right now your only source of income is
an employee's salary, you need to sit down and ask yourself
some very serious questions...

Take a few minutes and think what you'd do if your current
income ( for whatever reason) suddenly dried up?

Scary thought, isn't it?

Yes it's easy to dismiss this question - But tens of thousands of
people are hit with that awful scenario every single day
(and they probably thought it would never happen to them either...).

Now think "Wouldn't it be nice to have a safety net in place?"

Have you ever wondered how some people possess an almost
magical ability to conquer adversity in their lives? For most
it starts with a 30 Day Mental Cleanse!

To survive and thrive in the modern world means you need to
be ready now... You need to be the one in control... You
need multiple skills and much of it does really come down to the
way you think...

Thats why the Mentoring for Free mantra is
"Where you learn HOW to think-NOT what to think"

When you look around at the success story's of people from
Mentoring for Free. It's obvious many of today's most
successful people have overcome huge obstacles and set
backs to achieve their success.

And it all starts by reading a free ebook "Success in 10 Steps"
get your copy today!

Your Friend in Success

Gary McElwain
216-539-3553 Anytime
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Social Networking Miscues, MommyRoxy Spanks the Kids

Social networking seems to bring out the junior high girl in
a lot of people's thinking. I'll explain that in a bit, but first I have

something I need to share with you.

Roxanne Green is one of the great Mentor's, coaches and

trainers with Mentoring for Free. And after all the group

and one on one training, some people still cant control their

impulses to act like a junior high girl on MySpace for the

first time.

If your offended your the Friend

Here is Roxanne Green's message to her group, as she

spanks the kids who get out of line.

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OK - most of you know me and know that I don't sugar coat

things. This email may be harsh. It's meant to be. It's not

meant to be MEAN, but IS meant to be harsh.

When we talk about creating relationships on social networking

sites we do NOT MEAN forward every video, every joke and

everything you get that says

"Forward this to all of your friends".

If you're annoying ME, you're annoying your potential business

partners. I would NEVER join someone who annoyed me

with this.

It seems my facebook friends are the ones who are the main

culprits. I'm not targeting one specific person here. There are

about 15 of you who do this to me and I'm sure others are doing

it to other people

I get funwall comments DAILY

Are any of these comments from prospects?? NO - they are

from fellow STBers who feel that they have to forward

everything that comes along to their entire address book.

COME ON - how about spending a half hour a day looking at

profiles of people you want to cultivate a relationship with and

sending them a PERSONAL message???

Where is the relationship building in passing along everything

that comes into your inbox or funwall? How does that create a

RELATIONSHIP with someone?

I've been just ignoring all of this stuff, but today is the proverbial

"straw that broke the camel's back".

You guys are ANNOYING!!!

There - I said it. I'm NOT saying this to upset anyone or to

call anyone out or anything like that and this email needs NO

response. You are smart enough to know if you are one of the

ones who forward along stuff. Even if you, personally, forward

the wonderful motivational video ONCE to all of your friends,

that doesn't mean that your friends haven't had it forwarded to

them by SIX other people first

Every day when I go in and glance at the funwall posts after

getting the notification in my email, I see a bunch of the exact

same video or a bunch of the exact same picture.

How is a picture that says:

"You are special" with some cutesy thing on it supposed to

make ME feel special when 5 others before you sent me the

same photo????

STOP THE MADNESS.

Get off your butts and start looking at profiles and creating

RELATIONSHIPS. When your funwall post comes in saying

something PERSONAL and NICE, I (if I were a prospect) would

be more apt to click on YOUR profile than all of the others that

I consider "spamming my funwall".

If I offended anyone - TOO BAD. (I say that with love).

This is a business. This is not - "Tolerate others because they are

Success Team Builders". I care about the success of EVERY

one of you and if I see someone (or multiple someone's) doing

something that is counter productive, I will tell you.

Most times I do that one on one, but in this case, EVERYONE

needs this info.

I've done three or four calls now on social networking and

Marcello was kind enough to share his thoughts on the team call

during convention. Richard has done numerous calls on this also.

WE GIVE YOU THE TOOLS.

Go listen to those calls. They are there for you to learn from.

NO ONE said forward everything you get to your ENTIRE

friend's list. Think about making people feel special. A message

that was blasted out to everyone by six different people does

not make people feel special no matter what that message is.

Your goal is to make someone feel special EVERY day.

This should be a potential business partner, NOT a fellow STBer.

If you want to communicate with other STBers, send them an

email and stop spamming their funwalls.

Roxanne Green

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If you are making these kind of social networking mistakes

you have been warned of the effects. And if your networking

consist of a junior high girl. It looks like this.

Be Smart, Don't Twitter Your Life Away!

Your Friend in Success

GaryMcElwain
216-539-3553 Anytime
My Success Manual


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Suspected Florida Crazy Man Detained in Houston Hotel Lot

Quite the sensational headline for a rather humorous story.
Even though this sounds like some bizarre news story you
might hear on the 6 o'clock news. It's a funny story my upline
sponsor told me, about what happened to him last week.

The network marketing company that I work with, had
their national convention last weekend in Houston, Texas.
My upline leader was scheduled to be one of the speakers at
the event.

Now Richard Dennis usually like's to get up early and go
walking. While he is walking he talks into a recorder, about
marketing ideas and stuff he writes about. He has been known
to be a bit animated during his walks. Which may look a bit
unusual to passing motorist.

Well early in the morning he was out walking around the hotel,
practicing for his speaking engagement that morning. Practicing
his animated body movements and excited voice inflections, in a
hotel parking lot at 5 in the morning. Seemed a bit odd to the
Houston Authorities.

After showing them his identification and, explaining what he
was doing in their parking lot at 5 in the morning. The two
officers looked at each other, and his identification and realized
he must be one of those crazy successful network marketers
from Mentoring for Free.

Your Friend in Success

Gary McElwain
216-539-3553 Anytime
My Success Manual


Being a Mentor with a Servants Heart

Reaching Success in 10 Steps, From the Michael's Three

Much has been written and said about the three Michael's. The
incredible Olympic performance of Michael Phelps. And the
amazing Championship career of Michael Jordan along with
my favorite the savior of network marketing Michael Dlouhy.

There's no question that these three deserve every one of the
accolades that have been bestowed upon them, and then some.

Why?

Because they are outstanding example's of determined people
who have followed the Universal Laws that always bring
success. And you can find the evidence of that in the various
media coverage niches of the three.

All stating the same thing.

"The difference between successful people and failures
is that successful people make a habit of doing the
things that failures do not like to do."

And that statement points to the obvious reason's for the Michael's
successes. But there are other valuable reason's for this.

"The Law of Cause and Effect says that everything happens
for a reason. For every effect in your life, there is a cause, or
series of specific, measurable, definable, identifiable causes.

Like Success in 10 Steps

This law says that if there is anything you want in life, an effect
that you desire, you can find someone else that has achieved the
same result or effect, and that by doing the same things that they
have done over and over you can eventually enjoy the same
results and rewards.

What that means is that for the three Michael's to reach their
levels of success they needed coaches. Mentors to guide and
direct them, on their chosen path to reaching their goals, and
objectives.

Mentors and coaches are for more than sports, and business.
People need and use coaches for all aspects of life. And some of
the best are available for you at Mentoring for Free.

What are you waiting for, get a Mentor for Free.

Your Friend in Success

Gary McElwain
216-539-3553 Anytime
My Success Manual

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How Mentoring for Free Creates Success- Three Purposeful Pillars for Action

If your going to change any area

in your life you do three things

1) You focus on it and you get

clear and compelling reasons

for what you want. If your

business is not where you want

it to be, there's one simple reason.

Your not focused on it. What you

focus on, that's where the energy

goes, so thats where you go.

Focus your energy on Mentoring for Free

2) Focus on what you want, not what you dont want.

And not only just focusing on what you want. It's focusing and

making it compelling. Like I want the energy to burn, then

I'll have more passion and more livelyness. I'll be able to

make an impact. I'll be able to take my business to another

level. I'll have abundant creativity flowing through me and,

I'l have fun instead of feeling stressed out and tired.

If it's not fun, you're doing it wrong

3) You cant just focus on it you have to create a clear and

compelling vision of what you want in your future in all

areas. A vision that will pull you toward it, so it's not like your

trying to push yourself for some unatainable goal. You want it

to feel effortless. If there is an area your not improving in

there are three reasons for that. Three pillars if you will.

Start with Success in 10 Steps

Look for Pillar One tomorrow

Your Friend in Success

Gary McElwain

216-539-3553 Anytime

My Success Manual

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Mentoring For Free, Girl Scout Cookies, and NAC Wizardry

Mentoring For Free is helping people with their big changes.
As I mentioned in my previous post, we are creatures of habit.
And we will fight change every step of the way. Even when we
know it is for the best, for every one involved.

Here are a couple videos to help with the change

Jim Rohn Will Change Your Life

Tony Robbins Live an Extrordinary Life

I hope these two videos help you with change, like these two
gentlemen have helped me make great changes in my life.

Your Friend in Success

Gary McElwain
216-539-3553 Anytime
My Success Manual


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Michael Dlouhy and Mentoring For Free, Modeling the Vision of Success

Network marketing business plans

vary, so finding a model that creates

business success is essential. Whenever I

do something new I look for a model first.

I look for a person who has already done

what I want, and take a close look at exactly

what they did and how they did it.

I may not follow their plan exactly, but when you understand

the parts of that model, you can save yourself a lot of trial and

error. You have put yourself in a much closer position to success.

That's just another way of saying,

"Don't re-invent the wheel."

The people who will build your network marketing business

and income are the people with big dreams. If you can show

them a step-by-step plan to achieve what they want in life.

And if they believe that it's something they can do and that you

can help them.

You'll get a steady stream of people in your business.

To help you train your people for success in network marketing,

I recommend the best step by step duplicatable system

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understanding of the Personality Colors.

Your Friend in Success

Gary McElwain

216-539-3553 Anytime

My Success Manual

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Working Social Marketing Into Your Duplicatable Mentoring For Free System

Working social marketing into your network marketings
duplicatable system, will take a bit of work on your part.

If you are currently struggling in network marketing, it may
surprise you to learn the true formula for creating wealth and
financial independence in network marketing, is in using a
duplicatable system like Mentoring For Free.

Examples of the Social Marketing Techniques

Social Media Marketing Strategies Guide .... It's a real
shame - most people are using Web 2.0 completely the wrong
way. They don't understand the crucial basics of how to
leverage these awesome resources without coming across like
a pushy ...

Target Market or Fail Miserably! 6 Proven Strategies For
Success! 3 Start your own Squidoo page. 2. Promote your website
by emailing other mailing lists. 1. Use Social Networking Sites the
right way *hint- most do this wrong! The “key” to Internet
marketing is you must first master one single strategy. ...

Social Media Marketing on Twitter and Squidoo So far the
content is great and I am very excited to learn more advanced
Twitter marketing strategies. Another social media site that
is gaining momentum in the online marketing community is
Squidoo. Squidoo is a great site where users ...

A Strategic Approach to Social Media Marketing And,
while social media optimization is an important approach to your
marketing strategies, there is more to it. Since the majority of
marketers plan to increase spending on social media, it’s time to
start thinking strategically about ..

Just a few of the new ideas about social marketing on the
internet. Some of these ideas and tactics can be instituted in
your online marketing this week. But a duplicatable system
works best for teaching your team to create success in their
online homebased network marketing business.

Your Friend in Success

Gary McElwain
216-539-3553 Anytime
My Success Manual

Being a Mentor with a Servants Heart

Mentoring For Free The Foolproof System for Taking Control of Your Network Marketing Business--and Your Life

The success of your network marketing organization lies in
the enthusiasm of its participants. So when you raise your bar
and prove that hard work and dedication to the network
marketing industry can lead to a life changing experience. You
will never miss an opportunity to tell the world how great your
team leaders are.

You know what I'm talking about, don't you?

When they are letting everyone know their story, and the
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creativity and problem solving skills.

Think about it.

You need to convince yourself of this fact,: you can truly change
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understand how to skillfully orchestrate your attitude, you
couldn't have a better leader. Success in business and in life is up
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Your Friend in Success

Gary McElwain
216-539-3553 Anytime
My Success Manual


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