Successful Social Networking, Even Hanibal Lecter Had a Plan

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satisfaction. It's the 30 Day Mental Cleanse hosted by
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With all the chatter going on in our minds, that lead to
distractions constantly creating detours in our daily plans. This
will definitely ruin the Slight Edge process required to create
success in any venture you are involved in.

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My thoughts from Chapter 15

Fears are nothing more than a state of mind!

Before we can master an enemy, we must know its name, it's
habits, and it's place of abode. It begins with study, analysis,
and understanding. Because they can grow without thier presence
being observed.

I must recognize that I am susceptible to all the basic fears. And
must continuosly develop habits for the purpose of defeating
them. Before they can develop a foothold.

To protect myself against negative influences. I will use my will-
power, and put it to constant use. Until it builds a wall of Immunity,
against negative influences in my own mind.

And I will continuosly keep my mind closed against all who want
to depress and discourage me in any way.

No alibi will save me from accepting the responsibilities if I now
fail. Or refuse to demand Riches of Life. Because the acceptance
of such Riches call for one thing.

A State of Mind.

And a state of mind is something that one assumes. It cannot be
purchased. It must be Created.

Man can create nothing which he does not first concieve in the
form of an Impulse of thought. And mans thought impulses
begin immediately to translate themselves into thier physical
equivalents. Whether the thoughts are voluntary or involuntary.

The obvious truth is that we live in a world of overabundance.
Of everything The heart could desire. With nothing standing
between me and my Desires. Except the lack of a definite purpose.

I do demand riches, and choose to determine what forms and
how much will be required to satisfy me. I know the road that
leads to riches. I have been given the road map.

Which when I follow it, will keep me on that road. If I neglect to
make the start, or stop before I arrive. No one, will be to blame,
except me!

This responsibility is all Mine!

I look forward to hearing you on the calls for the
30 Day Mental Cleanse Mastermind.

Your Friend in Success

Gary McElwain
216-539-3553 Anytime
My Success Manual

Being a Mentor with a Servants Heart

7 Strategies for Building Social Networking Relations

Here are 7 Strategies for building relationships in the
Social Networking Arena called the Internet

Strategy1 Your Plan
There's a huge contrast between people who have a plan and
those who fall behind. Planning isn't rocket science... just
common sense in action. Because this skill is so easy to learn
and maintain, it is unbelievable that anyone would permit this
to hold them back.

Strategy 2 The Do Not's
Social networking seems to bring out the junior high girl in a
lot of people's thinking. I'll explain that in a bit, but first I have
something I need to share with you. Things not to do.

Strategy 3 Your Social Etiquette
Social networking is tricky for a lot of people who dont
understand the etiquette, and the strategies required to
successfully network on the internet today.

Strategy 4 Finding Your Friends
Master brander Gary Vaynerchuk recently spoke at the
blogger convention. And discussed numerous ways to build
your brand, with your blog. Watch this video

Strategy 5 You Need a System
If you are currently struggling in your social networking, it
may surprise you to learn the true formula for creating
wealth and financial independence in social networking, is in
using a duplicatable system like Mentoring For Free.

Strategy 6 Get a Mentor
The social networking maven himself Michael Dlouhy is
the easiest guy I've ever known to recommend as a straight
shooting tell you like it is kind of guy

Stategy 7 Do Some Live Networking
My good friend and personal mentor, Michael Dlouhy, will be
conducting a Freedom Tour Workshop across the United States.
You are cordially invited to experience The Freedom Tour

I share this with you so that we will become friends in the
internet world of Social Networking

Your Friend in Success
Gary McElwain
216-539-3553 Anytime
My Success Manual


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Social Networking Miscues, MommyRoxy Spanks the Kids

Social networking seems to bring out the junior high girl in
a lot of people's thinking. I'll explain that in a bit, but first I have

something I need to share with you.

Roxanne Green is one of the great Mentor's, coaches and

trainers with Mentoring for Free. And after all the group

and one on one training, some people still cant control their

impulses to act like a junior high girl on MySpace for the

first time.

If your offended your the Friend

Here is Roxanne Green's message to her group, as she

spanks the kids who get out of line.

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OK - most of you know me and know that I don't sugar coat

things. This email may be harsh. It's meant to be. It's not

meant to be MEAN, but IS meant to be harsh.

When we talk about creating relationships on social networking

sites we do NOT MEAN forward every video, every joke and

everything you get that says

"Forward this to all of your friends".

If you're annoying ME, you're annoying your potential business

partners. I would NEVER join someone who annoyed me

with this.

It seems my facebook friends are the ones who are the main

culprits. I'm not targeting one specific person here. There are

about 15 of you who do this to me and I'm sure others are doing

it to other people

I get funwall comments DAILY

Are any of these comments from prospects?? NO - they are

from fellow STBers who feel that they have to forward

everything that comes along to their entire address book.

COME ON - how about spending a half hour a day looking at

profiles of people you want to cultivate a relationship with and

sending them a PERSONAL message???

Where is the relationship building in passing along everything

that comes into your inbox or funwall? How does that create a

RELATIONSHIP with someone?

I've been just ignoring all of this stuff, but today is the proverbial

"straw that broke the camel's back".

You guys are ANNOYING!!!

There - I said it. I'm NOT saying this to upset anyone or to

call anyone out or anything like that and this email needs NO

response. You are smart enough to know if you are one of the

ones who forward along stuff. Even if you, personally, forward

the wonderful motivational video ONCE to all of your friends,

that doesn't mean that your friends haven't had it forwarded to

them by SIX other people first

Every day when I go in and glance at the funwall posts after

getting the notification in my email, I see a bunch of the exact

same video or a bunch of the exact same picture.

How is a picture that says:

"You are special" with some cutesy thing on it supposed to

make ME feel special when 5 others before you sent me the

same photo????

STOP THE MADNESS.

Get off your butts and start looking at profiles and creating

RELATIONSHIPS. When your funwall post comes in saying

something PERSONAL and NICE, I (if I were a prospect) would

be more apt to click on YOUR profile than all of the others that

I consider "spamming my funwall".

If I offended anyone - TOO BAD. (I say that with love).

This is a business. This is not - "Tolerate others because they are

Success Team Builders". I care about the success of EVERY

one of you and if I see someone (or multiple someone's) doing

something that is counter productive, I will tell you.

Most times I do that one on one, but in this case, EVERYONE

needs this info.

I've done three or four calls now on social networking and

Marcello was kind enough to share his thoughts on the team call

during convention. Richard has done numerous calls on this also.

WE GIVE YOU THE TOOLS.

Go listen to those calls. They are there for you to learn from.

NO ONE said forward everything you get to your ENTIRE

friend's list. Think about making people feel special. A message

that was blasted out to everyone by six different people does

not make people feel special no matter what that message is.

Your goal is to make someone feel special EVERY day.

This should be a potential business partner, NOT a fellow STBer.

If you want to communicate with other STBers, send them an

email and stop spamming their funwalls.

Roxanne Green

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If you are making these kind of social networking mistakes

you have been warned of the effects. And if your networking

consist of a junior high girl. It looks like this.

Be Smart, Don't Twitter Your Life Away!

Your Friend in Success

GaryMcElwain
216-539-3553 Anytime
My Success Manual


Being a Mentor with a Servants Heart

Social Networking with Charles Heflin, The Problems, Profits and Progress of Bigfoot

Charles Heflin has created a very informative blog series on
the state of social networking. He lets us in on his discoveries
of the future of the practice. Learn where to place yourself for
the next wave.

Or is it an implosion?

You can read his blog series at these links

1) The Investment
2) The ROI
3) The Traffic
4) Bigfoot
5) The Bubble

Download the Mentoring for Free Interview
(right click and save mp3)

I also included a short video of Charles System

Your Friend in Success

Gary McElwain
216-539-3553 Anytime
My Success Manual


Being a Mentor with a Servants Heart

Working Social Marketing Into Your Duplicatable Mentoring For Free System

Working social marketing into your network marketings
duplicatable system, will take a bit of work on your part.

If you are currently struggling in network marketing, it may
surprise you to learn the true formula for creating wealth and
financial independence in network marketing, is in using a
duplicatable system like Mentoring For Free.

Examples of the Social Marketing Techniques

Social Media Marketing Strategies Guide .... It's a real
shame - most people are using Web 2.0 completely the wrong
way. They don't understand the crucial basics of how to
leverage these awesome resources without coming across like
a pushy ...

Target Market or Fail Miserably! 6 Proven Strategies For
Success! 3 Start your own Squidoo page. 2. Promote your website
by emailing other mailing lists. 1. Use Social Networking Sites the
right way *hint- most do this wrong! The “key” to Internet
marketing is you must first master one single strategy. ...

Social Media Marketing on Twitter and Squidoo So far the
content is great and I am very excited to learn more advanced
Twitter marketing strategies. Another social media site that
is gaining momentum in the online marketing community is
Squidoo. Squidoo is a great site where users ...

A Strategic Approach to Social Media Marketing And,
while social media optimization is an important approach to your
marketing strategies, there is more to it. Since the majority of
marketers plan to increase spending on social media, it’s time to
start thinking strategically about ..

Just a few of the new ideas about social marketing on the
internet. Some of these ideas and tactics can be instituted in
your online marketing this week. But a duplicatable system
works best for teaching your team to create success in their
online homebased network marketing business.

Your Friend in Success

Gary McElwain
216-539-3553 Anytime
My Success Manual

Being a Mentor with a Servants Heart

Network Marketing Owner Billionaire Buffet, Social Networking Lunch of a Lifetime

Network marketing is one of the most rewarding home
business opportunities today. Making it one of the fastest-
growing career opportunities in the United States.

Meaning it's an excellent career opportunity for the
average person, as they can build their own business
organization.

Being their own boss, and not having to deal with complicated
employee and payroll problems.

Network marketing is a viable business model that generates
significant income for millions of people worldwide. This home
business is really the greatest source of grass-roots capitalism,
because it teaches people to take a small bit of capital--that is,
your time--and build the American Dream.

Fortune magazine called direct selling (of which network
marketing is the largest segment) "The best kept secret in the
business world." Billionaire Warren Buffet, after purchasing
one of these companies called it

"The best investment he'd ever made."

Age, gender and race aren't barriers in this type of home
business. In fact, well over half of the success stories are women.
This business model is particularly suited to single and married
women with family commitments.

Because it offers them an opportunity to start a home
business on a part time basis with very little capital.

Network marketing is the most successful way to introduce
consumers to new products and services they don't even know
exist.

This is accomplished simply by sharing information with
others about a product or service you believe in and then
teaching them to do exactly the same.

With the best techniques being taught at Mentoring for Free

Your Friend in Success

Gary McElwain
216-539-3553 Anytime
My Success Manual


Being a Mentor with a Servants Heart

Successful Social Networking Etiquette For The New Network Marketer

Social networking is often confused by people who believe
that social marketing in your face promotion, is how you
use this great media.

Social networking is tricky for a lot of people who dont
understand the etiquette, and the strategies required to
successfully network on the internet today.

Help for learning the rule's for Social Networking

Social Networking Etiquette=So if you’re using a blog or
Twitter or Facebook or MySpace or Mebo or countless other
sites or services for social, professional or business networking—
and who isn’t these days —

Social Media Manner=The basic rules of etiquette for
developing mutually beneficial relationships with people on
social networking web sites. In the online world of social
networking it should be pretty clear that the same rules which
govern our behavior ...

The Basics of Getting Started with Social Media Marketing=
Bear in mind that the basic rules of social etiquette apply on
the web just as they do in person. If you were attending a live
networking event, you would not go around the room and shove
your business card in the face of everyone ...

Social Media Marketing - Advice on Using Twitter From
John Reese. You probably know John Reese is a very experienced
credible and successful Internet marketer. I have benefited a
great deal from John’s courses and newsletters. This message
from John came to me by email and I am posting it here. ...

I think this brief collection of articles related to the etiquette
required to be successful in social networking will be of help.

Your Friend in Success

Gary McElwain
216-539-3553 Anytime
My Success Manual



Being a Mentor with a Servants Heart